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2 Podcasts on The Rhythms of Rapport By The Radical Change Group
Part 1 Covers
We are continuing a thread that we have started a long, long time ago on Rapport, reconsidering some of the aspects of rapport in a way that is not traditionally taught in NLP - by turning it from a nominalization into a process - a rhythm. Today we start by (re)defining the structure and dynamics of verbal rapport:
* What is a rhythm?
o Pattern
o Resonance - as in physics (pendulum) and music (groove)
o Deeply felt somatic phenomena
o Matching and mismatching a rhythm
* Tracking, pacing and leading
o words (backtracking)
o value words and predicates
o intent
* Using meta-model to build rapport - not to destroy it
o Turning a “Meta-Monster” into a “Meta-Friend”
* What to track
o One on one - words, language patterns
o Small groups - ocean of rapport, waves
o Large groups - myths, group fears and hopes
Technocrati Tags: NLP, Rapport, Language, Verbal, Tracking, Pacing, Leading
www.radicalchangegroup.com/blog...port/
Part Two
We are continuing our conversations on the rhythms of rapport, and this time we address the somatic - or pre-verbal - aspects of rapport.
* Focus on aspects of the body:
o Breath
o Eyes (brain states)
o Overall body gestures and posture
o Large group dynamics
o Idiosyncracies
* Areas:
o Dancing
o Business meetings
o Martial arts
* Name of the podcast: somatic or pre-verbal?
o Somatic - anything related to the body
o Pre-verbal - at the primary level, before the language kicks in. Circuits 1 and 2.
* Eye accessing cues
o Traditional NLP way - up, straigth, down
o Spacial locations
o Leading: shifting the locations, moving into different modalities
o Dance (5Rhythms) - eyes "language"
* Body proper
o Tracking the impulses that move the body, and replicating that in yours
o Martial arts (aiki jujutsu) - tracking body as a whole; breathing patterns as expressions; pacing - flowing with a punch, leading - becoming a center and taking control
o Business meeting face to face - track tentions, match / mirror those, then lead to relaxation
o People with schizophrenia - enter their world and cha
nge it from there
o Rapport in dance
* Large groups - rapport as a sense of belonging; track how space and time is treated
* Idiosyncrasies - personal signatures, unique self-expressions
www.radicalchangegroup.com/blog...port/
Best To download the podcast series directly from iTunes
www.radicalchangegroup.com/blog/
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posted 06/19/08
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